...to List the Top Ten Occasions to Call Someone by Name

The Italian Mama believes these ten occasions call for the special relationships formed when you address someone by name:

10. "Driver's license and registration please." 'Nuf said.

9. When meeting your girlfriend's parents. There is no quicker way to ingratiate yourself to the parents of your girl. Hey, if you really like her, you'll do it.  If you can't extend yourself this far, your relationship is doomed anyway. 

8.  When interviewing for a job.  All other things being equal, the applicant who uses the interviewer's name will land the job. Guaranteed.

7. When thanking someone. Well, do you mean it or not? 
 
6. When preparing a patient for surgery. Doctors and nurses will invade a patient's physical being like no others; they should at least make a personal connection that will help to make the patient fell less alone and vulnerable.

5. When helping a client with a nasty divorce. This person needs to feel connected and cared for by someone in charge.

4. Whenever you talk to your children. Strengthen your bonds with your kids every time you talk to them, not just when you're yelling at them.



Thanks, Emily!

3. When dealing with the guy behind the counter at the DMV.  You think you hate those long lines; think how he feels!

2. If you've ever had a mindless, soul-sucking job, you'll understand why addressing the cashier at the grocery store (most wear name tags) is number two on our list. 

1. And the number one occasion to address someone by name:
When you tell your mama you love her.

"I love you, Ma!"